they appear to be micro fuses (please correct me if I'm wrong
I can't see any legs, so I'm not going to comment, other than to say, you should pull one out and check the legs match the guide pictures.
Can you tell me what I should never connect to?
Some people say don't connect to anything to do with safety, like airbags or ABS, but they should all be safe.
I would avoid any low value fuses, the extra power of the dashcam will make more of a difference on those, if there is 10% spare capacity then that is more amps on a larger capacity fuse, so greater safety margin.
I would also avoid the window wiper fuses, they tend to have rather noisy/dirty power in them due to the high power motors.
Also, if your fuse tap is rated at 20A, don't put it in a 25A socket!
If I buy a piggyback fuse holder marked 10A, does that mean it can handle a maximum of 10A,
You should assume that the maximum size fuse you can put in it is 10A, and you should assume that that the two fuses in total should not exceed 10A. This might not be a correct assumption, but it is a safe one, and I doubt that you will find a fuse tap that is high enough quality to provide a specification saying otherwise.
I have a question about the fuse for the camera: would a 2A fuse be sufficient, or should I use a 5A fuse instead?
A dashcam generally uses up to 1A, maybe with a higher startup current, so absolute maximum 2A. But that is at 5 volts, and since the car fuses have 12 volt power in them, the dashcam hardwire kit will draw less than half the amps from those fuses, power is amps * volts, so you don't need more than 1A from the car fuse. It is hard to find 1A fuses, and a 2A fuse will be perfectly safe, so I recommend a 2A fuse. I normally use 5A fuses, but the purpose of the fuse is to protect the wire to the hardwire kit from overheating and catching fire in the case of a fault or short circuit, and the 70mai hardwire kit has fairly thin wires. I don't know what they are rated for, but they don't look very suitable for 5A.
I apologize if these questions seem silly,
They are only silly if you already know the answer, or could look it up and be confident that you understand. This is something that you don't want to get wrong.
I see that you already have a fuse tap there, maybe connect the GND to the same place as was used with that tap. It is often the GND that causes problems, because people connect it to plastic!