I have never seen what you talk about, and i think at one time i must have had a card that was too slow.
The A229 duo i am currently testing, i have found 3 cards it will not work with, or at least not seamless as it should be.
All 3 of the cards have read / write speeds of 90 / 80 MB/s and as i recall they will fill up, but then they often refuse to start recording on a new drive, but if you pull the power, wait a few seconds and then plug the power in it will record and also for a longer drive session.
And what they record are also just fine.
The not working cards ( all 256 GB ) are:
Adata High endurance.
Samsung evo plus. ( the new white card )
Trancend Ultra performance.
The Adata card when i first got it and it dident work, i tested it and it only had a 30 MB/s write speed, far below spec from the factory, so i formatted it with SDformatter and that did also bring the speed back to what is to be expected, but the card still will not work in any dashcam beside the Vantrue E2, and then it also work just fine in my dji osmo action recording 4K/60 at 100 mbit
All 3 of the " failure" cards above work in the Vantrue E2 system,,,,,,, which i find very weird ,but in A229 and A119 mini they will not work
But i have never seen too slow SD card on the screen, the 2 viofo i have just begin to beep 1 beep a second or so.
Mind you what you say make insanely good sense, a actual error one could relate to would be nice.